Hello, friend…
I’m currently in my hotel room in Montréal trying to be as quiet as a mouse while my dearest sleeps. We got up early for the free hotel breakfast, which was busier than a Taylor Swift concert, ate, and he’s now fallen back into a pancake induced slumber. Whereas I am debating about going to the museum (I absolutely love to visit the Musée des Beaux Arts whenever I’m here) or take my book to a nearby café. But both require leaving our cozy room to venture into the chilly weather… hmmm.
Either way, I feel a bit like the madness of the past 72 hrs has come to a pause & in all honesty, I feel a bit lost. Without going into great detail, someone I love dearly & whom I have known my whole life had a terrible accident this week. And we were left just waiting to know more and plan next steps and sit and wait for a few days. Which I knew in the moment was taxing, but also now, as I feel myself unravel slightly… I can feel anxiety’s grip relaxing a bit now that we have an idea that things are on the up and up. And my only worries are how do I adjust things on the calendar if need be? But, those worries aren’t too dire. Because you can only plan so much, then life does what it does. It reminds us, gently or harshly, that there is a clock.
I’m someone who has great interest and curiosity about what was here before me, my ancestry, and how I got here- who laid the groundwork for my path… I understand one day I’ll no longer be here, which I find so scary & intriguing in the same breath. When time is short, it is short. When time is long, it is short. That four years ago this month, this day I had no idea the world was about to close up shop for Covid-19? That was four years ago! Four! How?! My dearest friend, Aaron, whom I have known since high school- we grabbed a coffee the other day at an old high school haunt, and while we are now 30 some odd years older and he’s an accomplished actor & filmmaker and I am doing whatever the heck it is that I do… it seems like no time has passed at all. Yet, the comedy clubs he’d let me take him to when we were teens are no longer there on Lombard Street. But now, he knows to listen for me on CBC Radio later this year. 😉💋
Four years ago, about this time, I was in Montréal hoping to be where I am now. Doing weekend shows, my face on the poster. And then life just changed course & I wondered is that all there is? I don’t get to do this anymore? And then someone yelled pivot! And well, here we are. And I have hope to be somewhere else- new goals are on the board. I have been involved in the Toronto comedy scene ever since I met Aaron, back in the 1990s, and I’ve seen sooooooo many people and places come and go. And somehow, I got a 2nd act. And I wonder what my 3rd act will be like… I’m always looking ahead, sometimes forgetting to be present- but not too often.
You can reinvent yourself. Whether you think you’re ready or not.
Xo.