Hello, friend…
It’s been a hot minute since I last wrote (and I am making a mental note that I should not say “hot minute” ever again) but life has been busy & full. As hard as days can be, when I think back to what’s happened in the past two weeks alone?! I’m rich! Well, metaphorically speaking.
- We have a new member of the family!! My niece Elle! And she is calm and happy and has already been to brunch so we have her started off on the right foot.
- I have made my Chatelaine debut!! Read my piece here… https://www.chatelaine.com/living/real-life-stories/burned-out-quit/
- I am off to Montreal and NYC for stand up this weekend!
- My dad celebated his birthday and we feasted over yummy lobster
- Landed a sweet little writing assistant gig for next week!!
That’s not bad, not bad at all. AND YET… romantically… life is shit. When I am going to get this balance right?? When?? I keep getting notes from a guy who says he’s down with meeting me (mental note… do not say “he’s down” again) for cuddles but then gives no more info. It’s like, okay great! I’ll just let that float around and fly away… ugh. And also, he just wants to meet up and hug me? And then another guy saw no problem in my going to Oakville (I live in Toronto, it’s a bit of a hike) AT 1AM FOR OUR FIRST MEETING. No! NO!! Noooooo!!! Are you kidding me?? The distance isn’t a huge deal breaker, but the time. Of night. For a first meeting. Uh, no.
I’m just going to assume going to your house AFTER midnight in a city I don’t live in, something bad will happen.
ANYWAY.
I hate dating, I do. It’s like going on a continuous loop of job interviews for jobs you don’t really want but you need the money so you’ll suck it up for a bit. The truth is, I’d love to try things again with the last guy I was in a solid relationship with but I’m afraid to bring it up. I assume he’ll say no. One should never assume, but I’m doing it anyway.
I know I try too hard when it comes to dating, I know I do. I don’t know what I’m doing in the first place, but I definitely try too hard. I’m quirky, but I’m 41 and it’s WAY too late to change that about me. But I could absolutely try to tone things down in the over-achiever department.
ANYWAY. (mental note… you say that word too often, you’ve already said it twice in this blog and in caps.)
That’s life though, right? You take the good (new niece!), you take the bad (Oakville at 1am!)… you take them both and there you have the facts of life.
xo.